In a relationship, there is a stage called "THE COMFORT ZONE". It is where two people are so comfortable with each other, that they fart in front of each other without having to worry or warn one another. Yes, this may sound great and yes this is awesome, but every good thing has a bad side.
There are ups and downs to the comfort zone.
Up side:
- The feeling of comfort and being able to trust the person with anything.
- Having and getting to do anything comfortably because you know they wouldn't mind.
- Not being judged with whatever you want to do.
Down side:
- KNOWING the person too wellthat you become so predictable.
- BEING too comfortable that you already know what is going to happen.
- EVERYTHING you do wrong WILL be judged because you should have known better.
I can say that Mikhail and I are in our honeymoon stage, but I can also see the comfort zone. I really do not mind the comfortless we give each other because no matter how comfortable we get, I still feel the honeymoon.
The only thing I'm scared of, is being predictable.
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